Marty's Joke of the day is an internet column that I've written for more than 5 years.
I tell humorous stories about my "sweet wife" and raising our 4 young sons, named #1, #2, #3, and #4.
After 5 years of story telling, in August of 2005, doctors found a brain tumor in son #4.
Our focus here has changed little as we still try to find humor in our lives.
Tuesday, July 24, 2007
7/24 - A few short stories
~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~ Tuesday, July 24, 2007 ~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~
Yes, we’re still around and Its Christmas! (even though it’s Pioneer day in Utah.)
Ok, it’s not really Christmas, but this month seems like a December. Not because it’s cold. (We’ve had record days above 100º this month) But, because this month is so darn busy!
Here are some updates, and some stories I can remember;
My Father’s estate; The antique auctioneer guy came and hauled all of the antiques out of dad’s house. The auction is August 12th in Ogden Utah, if anyone is interested.
We got my sweet wife’s little brother married off in Manti Utah. It was on 07-07-07. I don’t think that Manti Temple has ever been busier. They had something like 36 weddings there that day. On the Friday before the wedding, we came down early and went fishing. I caught 3 fish, but grandpa said I only caught 2 (and tied with him). Probably because I let son #4 reel in one of my catches. But I know I still out fished him! – At the reception when the groom threw his new wife’s garter to the single males there, son #1 caught it. Now he just needs a girlfriend and a driver license!
Let’s see, what else? We’re getting a simple bath room remodel done. But, our handy dude has gone missing for 3 days, and we’ve got two huge holes in our basement floor, all the way to the dirt. Looks like this is going to be a long job. [Huge update on this in my next issue...]
A Funny; Son #4 said to my sweet wife today, “Mom this eye,” (pointing to his “good” eye) “is for seeing. And this eye,” (pointing to his totally blind eye) “is just for decoration.”
One last thing I can remember; Last night we took the Scout troop up past Alta ski resort (at about 9200 feet) and had a quick camp out. There were 6 Scouts sleeping in a large tent. There was a lot of wile life around. We saw a full sized male moose wandering through our camp, and heard several coyotes the next morning. But that night, at 10:00 pm, I went over and told the boys to be quiet. At 10:30 I did the same thing. Still no luck. At 11:00 I had had enough. I quietly went over to the tent, started ‘sniffing’ and snorting. I moved the gravel around with my foot to make them think something was out there. Then I scratched their tent and made more noise. They kept on chatting. But, one boy finally said, “What’s that? Be quiet! What was that?” After about 15 seconds they were all listening to me. Finally one boy stood up, started to undue the window, and I growled really loud, scaring all 6 of the boys, pretty good. They screamed and yelled, and I finally said, “Now get to bed and be quiet this time!”
But, unfortunately, it was one of those, “Boy, that was a dumb thing I did” moments. Those 6 boys were so scared, that they stayed up most of the night scared to death of what was out there. I even got a call from son #2 at 4:00 AM saying, “There’s a Moose or an Elk sniffing outside my tent and I don’t know what to do!” Yeah, right. At 4 AM while it’s pouring rain. Mr. Moose is bedded down somewhere. Anyway, it was one of those nights.
I’ll tell you more about our Pioneer Trek adventure and “what’s the worst thing that could happen to your house when you’re out for a week” in my next issue.
~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~ Monday, June 18, 2007 ~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~
Ok, so I can’t sleep. It’s 11:00 PM and I haven’t even started the JOTD! I hate the pre-MRI jitters. Tomorrow will pass quickly and quietly I hope. Son #4 is NPO after 6:45 tomorrow morning. That might mean we can sleep through breakfast...
So, we went camping this weekend. First we went to Logan Utah, about 2 hours north of us, for a family reunion. As you know I’ve done a bit of Genealogy, but not as much as some of these people. I think when you hit 65, that you must have more time to do those sorts of things. I can only hope I make it that long to get some time to do more of mine research.
What really impressed me at this reunion (other than the fact that everyone was over 70, and I only knew 2 people out of the 40 who attended) was the fact that our host had really done a lot of research. I don’t know if she found it, or got it from her ancestors, but they have a line that goes back to Charlemagne. And, if you get back to him, you can apparently get back to Adam. Yes, ~the~ Adam. So, if you thought it was cool that my sons were related to Merlin Olsen, going back to Adam ought to really impress you. And, speaking of Merlin Olsen, I met his sister at the reunion. She told stories of him when he was younger, and apparently he was a pretty big boy growing up. He was even bigger when he played for the LA Rams. And no, I didn’t ask for her autograph.
After the reunion, we camped over night at Bear Lake. Grandma and Grandpa stayed in their RV with my 4 boys, and my poor sweet wife and I got stuck in a tent yet again. Someday I’ll get to sleep in the RV. I just know it! But, I digress...
Sunday on Father’s day, we ended up in Randolph. We had planned it that way so we could spread my father’s ashes up on the mountain with a great view. (Above 8400 feet!) He had a successful grouse hunt there one year, and told a friend that’s where he wanted to end up. Dad’s friend brought his bagpipes and played a few of dad’s favorite tunes. High in the mountains, deep in the wood, with a great view; It was pretty touching.
Sometimes I wonder about son #4. He runs around and like just a normal kid, but then when we were tromping through the woods in the mountains to find just the right spot for his grandpa, he couldn’t walk worth a darn. He kept tripping and falling over sticks and logs, and had a really hard time. We held his hand, carried him a little, took it slow, and finally made it, but it was just a stark reminder of his problems too.
We had told him that in ‘the box’ was grandpa’s ashes. Somehow he got it in his little head that there were full sets of bones in there. When grandpa came out of the box, son #4 was pretty upset to learn that they ‘burned grandpa’. So, that was a tough sell too.
Anyway, one last story. For some reason when you’re driving around for hours at a time, the family conversation turns to weird things. We ended up talking about chickens and how my dad once brought home several live chickens, and we all got to make them into dinner. A scene I’ll not ever forget. A bit comical to my 10 or 11 year old brain... Which brought up a story that I told my boys. When we lived in Kearns, I was the Varsity Coach for the Boy Scouts. (14-15 year old Scouts). Now there’s something that happens to a boy when he turns 14 and gets with another bunch of 14 and 15 year old Scouts and they stop working on merit badges, and start thinking of other stuff. Anyway, our Varsity Team was going on the ‘Big Event’, kind of like a Mountain Man Rendezvous for Scouts. We needed a new dutch oven for the team, and they were having a dutch oven cooking contest with a brand new dutch oven as one of the prizes. So, having this vast knowledge about preparing chickens from scratch... (ba dum bump...), and wanting to somehow... excite the boys into activity, I thought our Team could impress the judges by bringing fresh, (oh so fresh) ingredients for a BBQ chicken dish. But, being somewhat cautious, I wanted to try it during one of our Scout meetings first. So I searched the valley for a live chicken, and brought one over to our meeting. (After asking parental permission first, of course...) We proceeded to take out the chopping stump, a handy Scout hatchet, and proceeded to take care of business. We cleaned everything up, cut the chicken in to pieces, got out the BBQ sauce, fired up the coals, and started our award winning meal. Then, for some reason, not one of the boys wanted to try any of our chicken. “I saw that thing alive, and I’m not eating it!” I suppose that’s one thing that they’ll never forget, and now that they’re older, I’m sure they talk about it in their therapy sessions.
Come to think of it, that was about the chewiest, toughest chicken I think I’ve ever had.
Enough of that. It’s time for bed. Now, enjoy your chicken sandwich at lunch today ‘eh? (Grin)
Enjoy Today’s Jokes! Marty
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Jokes, stories, and for sure good MRI news tomorrow!
~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~ Saturday, April 14, 2007 ~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~
Camping went well. We went to Crystal Hot Springs with the Scouts last night. The water in the hot tubs was a little weird smelling (with no chlorine) but it felt nice.
Anyway, for those of you on the blog site, here are a couple of cool videos.
Why kids need pets
This Octopus turns invisible and visible at will. Just watch.
~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~ Monday, April 02, 2007 ~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~
We had a great conference weekend. On Friday son #2 and I went downtown to sing at a Young Men’s open house. It was a training session for young men leaders in the Church. We had a men and boys choir of about 50 voices, all dressed in Class A Scout uniforms or suits and ties. We sounded pretty good too. Oh yeah, and they asked us to shave any facial hair. So, I did. After several years, you can see a bald faced pic of me that son #3 snapped this weekend.
After we sang and had lunch, we raced home, got packed up, and went camping with Grandma and Grandpa and one of the Kearns cousins. Grandma and Grandpa bought an older RV unit to ‘try out’ this summer to see if they like the RV life. You can kind of tell how old it is by the Disco lighting in one of the pictures on the web. We were all excited to try it out, but 9 of us didn’t fit very well in the 25 foot (or was that 20 foot) RV. So, my sweet wife and I got to sleep in our 10 man tent. (Along with an electric heater of course!)
We listened to conference, played games, and son #3 and I had a long walk around Palisades lake. We took the GPS and walked about 2 miles up and down the mountain, saw several deer, and took some great pictures of the views. (see them on the web – http://martysjotd.blogspot.com )
Tonight, since sons #1 and #2 made it through the last quarter with some (barely) passing grades, we decided to go to Chuck-a- Rama and out to see ‘Night at the museum’ at the dollar theater to celebrate. (The dollar theater is only 50¢ on Family night!). Dinner (as with most any buffet) was really good, and the boys really liked the movie. I thought it was just so-so, but they talked about their favorite parts all the way home. So, another successful family home evening.
Enjoy Today’s Jokes! Marty
p.s. Have you ever heard about the Grand Canyon Walkway? It looks like it’s now open. You can walk out on a skywalk, 4000 feet above the canyon floor. Something I’d like to do someday. Anyway, check out today’s video about it.
p.p.s. Skiing with son #4 tomorrow!
Kearns Cousin and the Disco RV
Son #4 and #3 in front of a garbage can. Yes, always a good thing to have in a picture of your kids...
Son #4 and I goofing around in the tent
More Goofing
And more goofing
Son #3 at the 'tree playground'
Son #3 and a duck
A deer son #3 and I saw
=-=-=- Reader Comment Section
[On Duplicate emails on Thursday morning]
Believe me....there were more sites than yours from Yahoo groups doing mass mailings! So it wasn't just you! ~Linda
Marty, Thursday I received eight copies of your 'JOTD' and then later I was at a luncheon and a friend mentioned he had received several copies of some mails. After investigating he found it was caused by a glitch in the yahoo program. He told me yahoo had since fixed it. I don't think you did anything wrong. Keep on keepin' on, ~Bob B.
[Yep, I got a few more emails about the dupe message from YahooGroups on Thursday. Hopefully it will stay fixed for awhile. Thanks everyone, for your patients. Marty]
=-=-=- Video of the Day
Grand Canyon Skywalk
=-=-=- Picture of the day
China appears to be the first country to install outdoor public urinals that are actually intended for daytime usage. Would you, or wouldn’t you?
A speeding motorist was caught by radar from a police helicopter in the sky. An officer pulled him over and began to issue a traffic ticket. "It seems everyone is out to get me lately. How did you know I was speeding?" the frustrated driver asked. The police officer pointed somberly toward the sky. "You mean," asked the motorist, "that I'm not just being paranoid? Even *He* is trying to get me?" ~Wanda
"On this day in 1844 the Young Men's Christian Association, the YMCA, was founded. It was founded by a small group of friends: a construction worker, an Indian chief, a cop, a soldier, a cowboy...they all met at a disco." ~Jay Leno
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John was furious when his steak arrived too rare. "Waiter," he shouted, "Didn't you hear me say, 'well done'?" "Oh, thank you, sir," replied the waiter. "I hardly ever get a compliment."
A group of professional people posed this question to a group of 4 to 8 year-olds, "What does love mean?" The answers they got were broader and deeper than anyone could have imagined. See what you think:
_____ "When my grandmother got arthritis, she couldn't bend over and paint her toenails anymore. So my grandfather does it for her all the time, even when his hands got arthritis too. That's love." Rebecca- age 8 _____ "When someone loves you, the way they say your name is different. You just know that your name is safe in their mouth." Billy - age 4 _____ "Love is when a girl puts on perfume and a boy puts on shaving cologne and they go out and smell each other." Karl - age 5 _____ "Love is when you go out to eat and give somebody most of your French fries without making them give you any of theirs." Chrissy - age 6 _____ "Love is what makes you smile when you're tired." Terri - age 4 _____ "Love is when my mommy makes coffee for my daddy and she takes a sip before giving it to him, to make sure the taste is OK." Danny - age 7 _____ "Love is what's in the room with you at Christmas if you stop opening presents and listen." Bobby - age 7 _____ "If you want to learn to love better, you should start with a friend who you hate," Nikka - age 6 _____ "Love is when you tell a guy you like his shirt, then he wears it everyday." Noelle - age 7 _____ "Love is like a little old woman and a little old man who are still friends even after they know each other so well." Tommy - age 6 _____ "During my piano recital, I was on a stage and I was scared. I looked at all the people watching me and saw my daddy waving and smiling. He was the only one doing that. I wasn't scared anymore." Cindy - age 8 _____ "My mommy loves me more than anybody. You don't see anyone else kissing me to sleep at night." Clare - age 6 _____ "Love is when Mommy gives Daddy the best piece of chicken." Elaine-age 5 _____ "Love is when Mommy sees Daddy smelly and sweaty and still says he is handsomer than Robert Redford ." Chris - age 7 _____ "Love is when your puppy licks your face even after you left him alone all day" Mary Ann - age 4 _____ "I know my older sister loves me because she gives me all her old clothes and has to go out and buy new ones." Lauren - age 4 _____ "When you love somebody, your eyelashes go up and down and little stars come out of you." Karen - age 7 _____ "You really shouldn't say 'I love you' unless you mean it. But if you mean it, you should say it a lot. People forget." Jessica - age 8 ~#1 Mom